- Dozens of women on Twitter accused comedian Chris D’Elia of preying on them when they were minors, with some including screenshots of their interactions.
- Some women said D’Elia repeatedly DM’d them, tried to initiate sexual contact or conversations with them, or tried to solicit nudes from them, all while knowing they were 16 or 17.
- D’Elia denied the accusations in an interview with TMZ. He claimed all of his relationships had been legal and consensual and that he never exchanged photos with these girls. He then apologized for ever getting “caught up” in his lifestyle.
- This started a larger conversation about what needs to be done in comedy and television to prevent men who behave inappropriately form climbing to the top or using their fame to harm women.
Allegations Pour In Against Chris D’Elia
Comedian Chris D’Elia has been accused of sexually harassing and messaging underage girls by multiple women online.
The comedian and sitcom star became a trending topic on Tuesday evening when dozens of women detailed stories alleging that D’Elia messaged them online when they were teenagers and attempted to initiate sexual relationships or dialogue with them.
The chain reaction of accusations started when one woman, Simone Rossi, tweeted screenshots of her old interactions with him.
“Imagine being 16 and being groomed by a stand up comedian twice ur age and the only reason you never met up and never got physically m*lested was because u had just gotten a boyfriend ur own age,” she wrote.
She shared screenshots of e-mails the two allegedly exchanged when she was 16-years-old. In one, D’Elia suggests the two meet up and make out. In another, he asks her to send a photo.
“For the longest time i thought it was embarrassing for ME that i was interacting with this older man but he was the one who DM’d me on twitter and was the one who was twice my age and was the one that used the power imbalance between us to his advantage,” she added, also claiming that there were a ton of other underage girls with similar stories.
This prompted a flood of other women to share their experiences. Many said they were fans of his at the time or had attended one of his stand up shows when they began contact on social media. One person claimed D’Elia solicited nudes from minors while in Vancuver and tried to initiate sex with a 16-year-old.
“when i called u out on twitter you told her you’d ruin her life if i didn’t delete it. absolute pedophile scumbag,” they added.
Another shared direct messages between her and the standup that they allegedly exchanged when she was 17, and he was 30. When he learns that she is 17 he says she is “too young” but continues to message her, ask for her number, and tell her she is cute.
“Although i’ve been publicly saying it for years, FUCK Chris D’elia. he solicited nudes off of me when i was 17 years old and constantly messaged me whenever he was touring vancouver and asked me to come backstage to his shows,” another peson said, saying that D’Elia has a reputation for this.
Many also referenced the parallels between this behavior and D’Elia’s character on the second season of the Netflix show “You.” There, he plays a man who uses his fame to prey on and assault underage women.
As all these accusations were piling in online, the popular Twitter account She Rates Dogs, which shares women’s stories of their bad experiences with men, collected stories they were receiving about D’Elia. Their long thread included numerous allegations, including one from a girl who said he DM’d her when she was a senior in high school and asked for her number, telling her to keep the conversation private. That girl claimed he tried to hook up with her friend in his hotel room, but they left after they were made to feel uncomfortable.
Another story shared by She Rates Dogs came from someone who claimed D’Elia sexually assaulted their sister when she was 17 after giving her numerous drinks.
An old clip from D’Elia’s podcast “Congratulations” also began circulating around Twitter.
“You ever seen a fucking 14-year-old? She looks 30. I’ve never seen…there’s no such thing as a 14-year-old girl anymore. They go from like 6 to 25,” he says in the clip.
Responses to the Allegations
Some were surprised by the allegations, while others defended D’Elia against them. The screenshots and stories have not been verified or corroborated, and because of this, some dismissed the claims in them.
Still, other tweets from those in various comedy scenes suggested that some people may have known about at least some of his behavior. One person said when they were starting out in stand-up, one of D’Elia’s friends told her that he is known to make memes out of the nudes sent to him and then share them with his friends.
Others just seemed unsurprised by the claims.
D’Elia Denies Accusations
On Wednesday, D’Elia denied the accusations in an interview with TMZ.
“I know I have said and done things that might have offended people during my career, but I have never knowingly pursued any underage women at any point,” he told the tabloid.
“All of my relationships have been both legal and consensual and I have never met or exchanged any inappropriate photos with the people who have tweeted about me,” he continued.
“That being said, I really am truly sorry. I was a dumb guy who ABSOLUTELY let myself get caught up in my lifestyle. That’s MY fault,” D’Elia added. “I own it. I’ve been reflecting on this for some time now and I promise I will continue to do better.”
Predatory Behavior in Comedy
The accusations against D’Elia also opened a larger conversation about predatory behavior in comedy and television.
“Comedy is a treasure trove of the type of guy who gets any amount of social currency and then thinks, “how can I use this to prey on underage girls,” writer and podcaster Dana Schwartz tweeted.
She also shared an experience of her own. At one point, she worked with an established and older male screenwriter. He was married and twice her age, but tried to kiss her one day. After she rejected him, he cut off communication and dropped the project.
Stand-up comedian Meghan Gailey said comedy club owners should be doing more to stop comedians with known predatory behavior from getting booked.
Writer and stand-up comedian Ian Karmel applauded the women who spoke out against D’Elia and asked how the comedy community could become a safer place where women do not have to tell these stories.
Many suggested that men need to call out other men when they see something that looks suspect so they can stop inappropriate behavior in its tracks.
See what others are saying: (Vulture) (Newsweek) (The Independant)
Upcoming “Karen” Movie Slammed as Rip-Off of Jordan Peele’s “Get Out”
The horror film follows a Black couple that moves into a house next door to a white woman named Karen.
“Karen” Trailer Goes Viral
The viral “Karen” trope is getting the Hollywood treatment, and people on Twitter would like a word with the film industry’s manager.
“Karen” has become a term used to describe entitled, and often racist, white women who are quick to call the cops or complain about customer service when things don’t go exactly their way. The upcoming movie, called “Karen,” is a horror picture that follows a Black couple that moves into a new house next door to a pearl necklace-wearing and Pinot Grigio-drinking white woman. Any guesses on what her name is?
The film, a BET Original, was written and directed by Coke Daniels and stars Taryn Manning as the titular “Karen.” Cory Hardrict and Jasmine Burke play the couple that’s new in town. The trailer was released on Thursday but started gaining traction online this week.
Throughout the trailer, Manning’s character is seen threatening to call the manager at a restaurant, setting up security cameras that look at her new neighbors’ house, and calling the cops on a group of teenagers while they record her in that now-familiar viral format.
She also says that Burke’s character is “slaving away in the kitchen” upon entering her home and tells a group of Black people, “you people are very angry.” It also appears that she owns a soap dispenser with the Confederate flag on it.
In case people watching were unable to put the glaringly obvious puzzle pieces together, a small child eventually says, “She doesn’t like Black people,” in the trailer.
Because the hammer is perhaps hitting the nail a little too harshly on the head, many wondered if it was even a real movie or some kind of “Saturday Night Live” parody.
Twitter Compares Film to “Get Out”
Others thought it looked like the film was ripping off Jordan Peele’s hit horror movie “Get Out,” which is about a Black man meeting his white girlfriend’s family.
“Get Out” was praised for using the horror genre to provide nuanced commentary and observations on racism in America. Peele won an Academy Award for the film’s original screenplay, and it was also nominated for Best Picture. “Karen,” on the other hand, is not likely to wind up part of the awards conversation come 2021.
Daniels ended up sharing an article comparing his upcoming project to “Get Out” on his Instagram story, also apologizing for bringing Peele into the online discourse.
Daniels previously told Deadline that he wrote this film in 2020 as discussions about race relations in the United States were reaching a boiling point.
“Last year during the global pandemic and civil unrest, I — like many of us — felt anger, despair and hopelessness,” he said. “The overwhelming amount of support from people around the globe, who want to see change, has been such an inspiration.”
“Karen” does not yet have a release date.
See what others are saying: (Esquire) (CNN) (Independent)
Carl Nassib Becomes First Active NFL Player To Come Out as Gay
While making his announcement, the athlete also pledged a $100,000 donation to The Trevor Project.
Nassib Comes Out
Carl Nassib, a defensive end for the Las Vegas Raiders, made history on Monday as the first active NFL player to come out as gay.
The 28-year-old made the announcement in an Instagram video, along with a longer written statement.
“I just want to take a quick moment to say that I’m gay. I’ve been meaning to do this for a while now, but I finally feel comfortable enough to get it off my chest. I really have the best life, I’ve got the best family, friends and job a guy could ask for,” he said in the post.
“I’m a pretty private person so I hope you guys know that I’m really not doing this for attention. I just think that representation and visibility are so important,” he continued.
“I actually hope that like one day, videos like this and the whole coming-out process are just not necessary. But until then, I’m going to do my best and do my part to cultivate a culture that’s accepting, that’s compassionate and I’m going to start by donating $100,000 to The Trevor Project.”
He also noted that he was thankful for the support from his NFL coaches and fellow players. “From the jump, I was greeted with the utmost respect and acceptance,” he wrote.
Praise From Sports Community
Nassib’s announcement was met with praise from his team on social media, as well as other athletes and the NFL itself.
NFL commissioner Roger Goodell issued a statement on behalf of the league, saying that it “is proud of Carl for courageously sharing his truth.”
Several football fans and commentators, including sports reporter Jemele Hill, also pointed to the potential impact his bravery could have.
“Carl Nassib likely isn’t the only active gay player in the NFL, but him coming forward will be huge for those who haven’t gotten there yet,” HIll tweeted. “Very courageous decision that will not only help other players but so many young people in this country.”
See what others are saying:(ESPN)(The New York Times)(NBC News)
Billie Eilish Apologizes for Mouthing Racist Slur in Old Clip
Eilish said she is “appalled and embarrassed” to have mouthed along to a song containing the term, which she did not know was a slur at the time.
Video Shows Billie Eilish Using Slur
Singer Billie Eilish apologized Monday night for mouthing an anti-Asian racial slur in an old video that recently resurfaced on social media.
The clip was featured in a compilation that went viral on TikTok. In it, she was mouthing along to the song “Fish” by Tyler the Creator, which contains the slur. The compilation also showed her speaking in a voice that many interpreted as her mocking foreign accents or languages.
“I love you guys, and many of you have been asking me to address this,” Eilish wrote on her Instagram story. “And this is something that I WANT to address because I’m being labeled something that I am not.”
Eilish Apologizes for Mouthing Term
The “Bad Guy” singer said she was 13 or 14 at the time the video was taken, and claimed she had no idea the word was a derogatory term at the time.
“I am appalled and embarrassed and want to barf that I ever mouthed along to that word,” Eilish wrote. “This song was the only time I’d ever heard that word as it was never used around me by anyone in my family. Regardless of my ignorance and age at the time, nothing excuses the fact is that it was hurtful. And for that I am sorry.”
Regarding accusations that she mocked foreign accents and languages, the singer said she was speaking a “silly gibberish” that she made up as a child and uses around her pets, family, and friends in a joking manner.
“It is absolute gibberish and just me goofing around, and is in NO way an imitation of anyone or any language, accent or culture in the SLIGHTEST,” she added. “Anyone who knows me has seen me goofing around with voices my whole life.”
“Regardless of how it was interpreted I did not mean for any of my actions to have caused hurt to others and it absolutely breaks my heart that it is being labeled now in a way that might cause pain to people hearing it,” she continued.
The Grammy Award-winner said that she wants to use her platform to promote “inclusion, kindness, tolerance, equity, and equality.” She closed her statement by telling her followers that it is important for people to listen and learn when it comes to conversations about these subjects.
Read her full apology below.