- Charli XCX fans are being called exploitive and abusive for asking the singer to sign or pose with strange items at meet and greets, including a parent’s ashes and a douche.
- Charli dismissed the claims in a post, calling the outrage “2019 fake wokeness” that encourages online harassment.
- She also slammed journalists for peddling the narrative in opinion pieces without asking for her opinion on the issue.
Meet and Greet Requests
Charlie XCX responded Wednesday to claims that her fans have been taking advantage of her at meet and greets by asking her to sign or pose with odd items.
Over the past few weeks, people have shared photos of their strange requests, almost like a new challenge or meme within her fanbase. The trend seems to have started sometime in September when a fan’s tweet went viral showing that Charli had signed a bottle of poppers, a slang term broadly used for alkyl nitrites.
The requests quickly escalated from there, with a fan later asking Charli to post with his mother’s ashes and another asking her to sign a douche.
When a Twitter user asked if Charli knew what the douche was, the fan said she didn’t. “No..I asked her to hold my poppers to my nose and she politely declined which I respect and so I asked if she would sign this and she was like what is dis hunny.”
Charli briefly talked about the ashes photo in a recent interview with i-D, saying she was caught off guard by the request.
“This is the thing. The conversation was so quick and normal. It just flowed. First, he was like: ‘Hey! Release “Taxi”, I’m so excited for the show – by the way, my mum passed away’. I said ‘I’m really sorry’, so he said ‘Don’t worry about it, can you just take a picture of you holding her ashes?‘
It was almost like they were in a poppers bottle. I was like [Charli makes the sound of someone who’s been thrown a baseball with no warning]… and then it happened, and now it’s online. My face is sort of like…. Well, you can see it in my eyes, I’m afraid.”
She then went on to say that she hopes that was a one-time thing, but added: “I love the fans, so they can get away with quite a lot.” Charli also said she loved “Twitter culture,” and enjoyed reading funny comments about the photo.
Fans noted that the comment to i-D came before the douche photo was posted. After that picked up attention, she sent out a cryptic tweet that read, “have some respect.that’s all,” which fans assumed meant she was upset about the photo.
Fans Face Backlash
For days, fans who asked for the photos received heat from social media users who accused them of crossing boundaries. Meanwhile, Charli received support from those who called their behavior disrespectful.
love you so much charli sorry some people don’t understand boundaries and don’t see you as a person only as a pop object, you deserve better fans— ༺ 𝔊𝔬𝔱𝔥 𝔍𝔞𝔣𝔞𝔯 ༻ (@arabthot) October 30, 2019
i’m so sorry this happened to you. it’s absolutely disgusting. i wouldn’t blame you if you stopped doing meet and greets. i respect you and i’m upset others don’t. i’m sorry a fan would do this. you give so much and it’s disrespected which is awful. i’m so sorry about this.— peachy (@nextlevelbella) October 30, 2019
One opinion article about the strange asks caught some attention as it suggested that some of her gay male fans specifically treat her with a degree of misogyny, feeling as if they own her. The writer, Jared Richards, criticized her fans for “a lack of respect for Charlotte Aitchison, the person behind the pop-persona,” and accused them of using her as “a prop for their own clout.”
Charli Dismisses Claims
Charli issued a more detailed response to the issue after seeing all of the backlash against her fans. In a lengthy statement shared on Twitter, Charli noted seeing articles suggesting that fans are abusing and taking advantage of her. She immediately called those accusations “ridiculous and pretentious.”
“People writing these articles are guilty of exactly the same thing they are accusing fans of: these journalists are using the same images they condemn fans for taking as clickbait to push their ‘think pieces’ on me and my culture as an artist,” she continued.
The singer went on to call the outrage “2019 fake wokeness” that “does more harm than good and just encourages people to attack and harass one another online.” Charli explained that she doesn’t leave meet and greets thinking about the objects she signed or photos she took, but rather thinks more about the meaningful interactions she has with fans.
She noted that she does not feel obligated to do anything, and added, “I do not think my fans have been abusive towards me at meet and greets: please stop saying they have been.”
The signer threated to cancel future meet and greats if she continued to see more of this
“ridiculous narrative” around them. She then directly addressed reporters, saying, “If you’re a journalist– maybe ask me for my opinion before you try and paint me as some kind of helpless damsel.”
PewDiePie Opens Up About Past Drinking Problem
To escape the stress of his online controversies, the YouTuber said he turned to alcohol, a strategy he described as “a recipe for disaster.”
PewDiePie Addressed Past Alcohol Issues
YouTuber PewDiePie uploaded a video Wednesday revealing that he previously dealt with a drinking problem.
PewDiePie, whose real name is Felix Kjellberg, said that around 2017 and 2018, he used to drink whiskey every single day. When he tried to quit for health reasons, he struggled, which made him realize how attached he was to the substance.
“That’s when I realized, oh shit, maybe I do have a problem,” he explained. “And that’s why I quit drinking for a few months because I thought you know, I need to show I’m the one in control.”
After quitting the habit for a period of time, he said he convinced himself that it would be okay to re-introduce drinking back into his life. Kjellberg claimed the problem was at its worst when he was struggling with a handful of online controversies, though he did not specify which ones. Kjellberg has faced backlash numerous times throughout his career, including for using racist and anti-Semitic language.
“Drinking to sort of escape emotions is a recipe for disaster,” he said.
PewDiePie Says YouTube Addiction Fueled His Alcohol Addiction
“I was still not just addicted to escaping these emotions by drinking, but I think I was also addicted to YouTube, and I was so scared of losing YouTube through all these controversies that I was fueling one addiction out of my fear of losing another one,” Kjellberg continued.
The YouTuber explained that he was “nowhere near” the point where alcohol could have cost him his job or loved ones and he does not want to “co-opt all that pain” that many people endure. Still, he said he had reached a point where he had to rethink his relationship with drinking and ultimately decided the best thing to do was quit.
“It was really rough, especially because I was having a lot of withdrawals from it,” Kjellberg said. “It took me a long time to be able to sleep properly again, but I did manage it and I was done. And I haven’t touched it since, which I’m really proud about.”
Kjellberg admitted that he used to be embarrassed by the subject, which is why he waited so long to publicly discuss it. For a period of time, he also felt he had merely replaced one addiction with another because he began using nicotine patches. He said he has now quit nicotine twice and feels freer without the substance.
“That kind of felt like almost losing a friend. I’m not even exaggerating,” he confessed about the process of quitting nicotine. “It’s like something that you used to rely on but will no longer be there.”
Kjellberg discussed the thoughts many notable philosophers have had on vices and addiction and claimed their beliefs helped guide his choices. Now, he hopes others dealing with similar issues might hear his story and prompt change within their own lives.
“I’m hoping that talking about it might lead people to open their eyes about their own actions and what they’re also doing,” he explained. “And it’s a tough thing to admit.”
Fellow creators like Anthony Padilla and Jacksepticeye commented on the video to thank Kjellberg for sharing his experience.
“[This] will help so many people and gives such a better look at how strong you are,” Padilla wrote. “Love you dude.”
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Billie Eilish Advocates for Climate Action Ahead of U.N. COP26 Summit
The singer was joined by “The Office” actor Rainn Wilson and other big-name celebrities and activists in a pitch for world leaders to make substantial progress at the conference.
Billie Eilish Calls for Climate Action
Singer Billie Eilish partnered Tuesday with the environmental group Arctic Basecamp at the University of Exeter to call for meaningful climate action ahead of the U.N. COP26 climate conference.
“This year our leaders are deciding the global actions required on the environment climate emergency in a critical decade for our planet,” Eilish said in a video. “We must stand together and speak up to save our planet, not just for us, but for our future generations. And we need urgent, urgent action now.”
Eilish is no stranger to advocating for solutions to climate change. In September, the “Happier Than Ever” singer urged Congress to pass climate legislation as part of the #CodeRedClimate campaign. For her latest pitch with Arctic Basecamp, she was joined by other big names, including “The Office” actor Rainn Wilson, explorer Levison Wood, climate activist Daze Aghaji, and wildlife advocate Robert Irwin, who is the son of the late Steve Irwin.
“Courage. That’s what our world’s leaders need more than anything,” Wilson said in the video message. “The decisions that they make about the climate crisis in the next decade are the most important decisions in our planet’s history.”
What is COP26?
Arctic Basecamp works with scientists and other high-profile organizations all over the world to call attention to climate issues and encourage effective solutions. It was founded by Gail Whiteman, a professor at the University of Exeter, who released a statement thanking the slew of stars and activists for their involvement in the COP26 initiative.
“It is amazing to be working with such brave people that not only are using their voice but are using their voice for good,” she said. “This is a crisis and the Arctic is sounding the alarm. It is time that world leaders come together to create real change that ensures a safe future for humanity.”
COP26 will kick off in Glasgow on Oct. 31 and run through Nov. 12. Global leaders will discuss several actions regarding the environment, including pacts like the Paris Agreement and U.N. Framework Convention on Climate Change. They will also focus on a series of goals, including achieving global net-zero emissions by mid-century and protecting ecosystems, along with other infrastructure threatened by climate change.
U.K. Prime Minister Boris Johnson has pitched the event as a key moment for the world to come together and tackle climate change. This week, he described it as “our best chance to make the changes we need to protect our planet for our children and grandchildren.”
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Dave Chappelle Says He’s Willing To Meet With Trans Community Under Certain Conditions
After being criticized for transphobic comments, the comedian said he would give an audience to the transgender community even though he is “confused” about what they would be discussing.
Dave Chappelle Addresses Netflix Employees
Comedian Dave Chappelle responded on Monday to the recent backlash he has faced for making transphobic remarks in his new Netflix stand-up special “The Closer.”
Over the past several weeks, many employees at Netflix have protested against Chappelle’s program and numerous LGBTQ+ rights groups have condemned his comments. Netflix employees staged a walkout last week to call out “The Closer” and advocate for more trans and nonbinary employees to be included at the company.
Some reports have alleged that Chappelle denied the opportunity to speak with the trans community and allies at Netflix. In a new video addressing the controversy, Chappelle refuted that allegation.
“It’s been said in the press that I was invited to speak to the transgender employees of Netflix and I refused. That is not true,” he said “If they had invited me, I would have accepted it, although I am confused about what we would be speaking about.“
“I said what I said, and boy, I heard what you said. My God, how could I not?” he continued. “You said you want a safe working environment at Netflix. It seems like I’m the only one who can’t go to the office.”
Chappelle Says He Will Meet With Trans Community
Chappelle added that he would be willing to meet with the trans community but is not “bending to anybody’s demands.”
“I have some conditions. First of all, you cannot come if you have not watched my special from beginning to end,” Chappelle explained. “You must come to a place of my choosing at a time of my choosing, and thirdly, you must admit that Hannah Gadsby is not funny.”
Gadsby is a comedian best known for her Netflix special “Nanette.” While defending Chappelle, Netflix co-CEO Ted Sarandos name-dropped Gadsby and “Nanette” as examples of the service’s offerings that give voice to marginalized communities. Gadsby shot back at the executive, saying she did not want him to “drag [her] name into [his] mess.”
“Now I have to deal with even more of the hate and anger that Dave Chappelle’s fans like to unleash on me every time Dave gets 20 million dollars to process his emotionally stunted partial world view,” Gadsby wrote on Instagram. “Fuck you and your amoral algorithm cult.”
During “The Closer,” Chappelle called himself “team TERF” while discussing author J.K. Rowling being “canceled” after making a series of transphobic comments herself. He said he agreed with Rowling and added that “gender is a fact.” He later made a slew of other comments, including a joke about Caitlyn Jenner and remarks comparing the genitalia of transgender women to Beyond and Impossible meat.
As outrage poured in, Sarandos released a series of statements in support of Chappelle and his artistic freedom. During his video, Chappelle thanked Sarandos, claiming that he has lost a series of opportunities amid the controversy. Chappelle recently completed a documentary that he says was going to screen at film festivals, but he is allegedly no longer welcome at those events.
“When this controversy came out about ‘The Closer,’ they began disinviting me from these film festivals, and now, today, not a film company, not a movie studio, not a film festival, nobody will touch this film,” Chapelled claimed. “Thank God for Ted Sarandos and Netflix, he’s the only one that didn’t cancel me yet.”
Chappelle later announced that he will be taking his documentary on tour to cities like San Francisco, New York, Atlanta, and Toronto.