- YouTuber ProJared responded to accusations that he solicited sexually explicit photos from fans, with at least two saying they were underage at the time.
- ProJared said that in the past, he exchanged photos with consenting adults, but denied ever doing so with minors.
- He also included evidence to support his side of the story and said his accusers may have made up their claims in hopes of gaining money and attention.
- He responded to claims from his ex-wife who said he cheated by saying the two were already breaking up at the time of the alleged affair.
ProJared Breaks Silence
YouTuber and gamer ProJared responded to accusations that he solicited sexually explicit photos from underage fans.
Jared Knabenbauer, who goes by ProJared online, posted a 42-minute-long video to YouTube titled, “You Were Lied To.” Back in May, he was accused by two fans, identified as Chai and Charlie, of soliciting nudes from them while they were 16-years-old. Chai claimed Knabenbauer was aware of his age, while Charlie said the YouTuber never asked for their age. Up until now, Knabenbauer has stayed relatively silent on the matter.
These accusations surfaced as Knabenbauer announced his divorce from his now ex-wife Heidi O’Ferrall. At the time O’Ferrall had accused him of infidelity and abuse.
In Knabenbauer’s video, however, he denied these accusations and said he has proof to back him up. He acknowledged that he did exchange photos with some fans, but said they were always consenting adults.
“What this all came down to was people saying that I was exchanging nudes with fans on Snapchat and Tumblr and a lot of people want to know if I did any of that,” he said. “Yeah, I did. And I always made it clear that it was for consenting adults only.”
ProJared Addresses Chai’s Claim
Knabenbauer went on to break down the accusations that came from Chai and Charlie. He pointed out that both have deleted their initial accusation tweets against him, and dove into Chai’s story first. Knabenbauer said he has no memory of ever interacting with Chai and added that the things Chai claimed he did sound out of character.
Then he broke down a timeline of Chai’s accusations, which Chai said happened in between March and July 2016. This period overlaps with a time when Knabenbauer’s Tumblr account was hacked.
It also lines up with a very important part of Chai’s life that he wrote about in an apparent Medium post. Chai said he suffered a severe head injury playing basketball in November 2015 which caused him to have a gap in memory for the following six months. The injury led to hallucinations and voices in his head, which he said eventually told him to do violent things.
He said these symptoms were part of psychosis, which reached a tipping point in August 2016 when he told his mom that he would kill her if she did not take him to the hospital. After this hospitalization, he eventually became better.
“To reiterate, Chai’s accusation was that the things I supposedly did happen between March 2016 and May 2016,” Knabenbauer said. “Chai also states that he has no memory during this exact same period and hallucinations continuing until August 2016.”
Because of this memory gap, he called Chai’s trustworthiness into question. He also added that there could be a possibility that Chai lied about this medical situation, but if he lied about that, Knabenbauer said that would also impact his trustworthiness.
He also noted that if this did happen while his Tumblr was hacked, the hacker would have likely leaked screenshots of their conversations at the time. Neither Chai nor Knabenbauer said they have screenshots or evidence of their conversations.
ProJared Responds to Charlie’s Claim
Knabenbauer then went on to say that he remembers interacting with Charlie, and said he does have screenshots from their encounters. Charlie did post some when making their initial claim, but Knabenbauer said they left out key details.
A notable screenshot that Knabenbauer presents shows him asking Charlie for their age, and Charlie saying they are over 18. In their initial accusation, as well as in an interview with the Daily Beast, Charlie said they were not asked their age.
Knabenbauer then continues to say that Chai and Charlie emailed their stories to creator collective Game Grumps. He said that when he saw the email that they sent to them, he actually reached out to apologize. The two, however, were not happy with the apology, despite the fact that a screenshot shows they specifically requested it.
The two also emailed their stories to Normal Boots, Knabenbauer’s old collective that he parted ways with in May. This email did not include an apology request.
As far as his situation with Normal Boots, Knabenbauer clarified their decision to part ways.
“I was not fired,” he said. “I resigned so that everyone else at Normal Boots wouldn’t get dragged down with me.”
Knabenbauer closed this part of the video by calling out his accusers’ honesty once more since they wrote their emails and discussed their accusations together.
“How can we trust Chai when his cohort Charlie was already lying?” he asks.
Knabenbauer believes they did this for money and attention. He accuses the two of “e-begging” as they both linked things like their Paypal and Amazon wishlists on their social profiles.
Accusations Against Pamela Horton
The video continues to address another accusation that came from an adult woman named Pamela Horton, who is a part of ToasterGhost. She claimed that at a gaming event they met at, which Knabenbauer said was in 2015, he looked up her nudes and showed them forcefully to other people. She went on to say that after this, he continued to be disrespectful and make lewd comments about her.
Knabenbauer said he was especially shocked by this because not only does he have no memory of it, but he claimed that since their meeting at this event, they had been friendly with one another. He went on to mention three men who would have been at this alleged incident, and two confirmed to him that they have no memory of it.
He then dug further into her accusations to try to find out a specific timeline of when she said he made the lewd comments. He ends up saying that she is referring to an E3 panel with Horton, MatPat, and himself. Knabenbauer said that he has never been on a panel with either of them or even on a panel at E3, but still finds it hard to believe that Horton would flat out lie about this.
“I think this is something that probably actually happened to her, and she was treated with some amount of disrespect, but she’s putting me in the place of someone who actually treated her this way,” Knabenbauer said.
Users on Reddit have pointed out that Horton did do a panel at E3 with MatPat that did not include Knabenbauer. It included Kyle Bosman, who many think resembles Knabenbauer. Some wonder if she confused the two. This, however, is unconfirmed. Horton has not made any accusations against Bosman, nor has she said anything about mixing the two up.
ProJared’s Comments About His Marriage
One of the last things Knabenbauer addressed are the cheating allegations regarding his marriage, which he claimed are false.
“No cheating happened,” he said. “I told my wife at the time I no longer wanted to be with her in October 2018. I was refused. I was told no. I was denied. I had my career threatened. I felt controlled.”
He went on to say that his relationship with O’Farrell, as well as with Holly Conrad, the woman O’Farrell alleges he had an affair with, should not be public business. He also requests that people stop spreading misinformation and stop harassing him online.
Reactions to Video
Both Chai and Charlie have set their social accounts to private and have made no public comments. Chai’s bio says “Offline for a while.” Meanwhile, Charlie’s bio says that the fact they locked their account “doesn’t mean shit i just don’t want more death threats lmao.”
Pamela responded to the video in one tweet saying, “I know my truth.”
O’Farrell has since posted two long Twitter threads about the video. In the first, posted Tuesday afternoon, she said his insistence that she is lying is “beyond dehumanizing.” She also added that they did not break up in October, they just had a conversation about it.
She also said their real divorce and breakup was not until February, and that up until then, they were trying to work on their relationship.
She added that he was with Conrad long before she even realized.
She said she could not believe he was “capable of lying on this level” and called the alleged lies “terrifying.”
In her second thread, she said the new video has caused an “an avalanche of fresh hatred.”
As far as public reaction, Knabenbauer’s subscriber account has gone up since he posted his video. The video currently has over one million views.
Shane Dawson Says Hurtful Comments Are the Reason He Doesn’t Upload More
- Shane Dawson uploaded a video to his new YouTube channel dedicated to makeup videos and other “random” posts.
- Shortly after his latest video went live, Dawson shared a comment someone left about his weight, saying that comments like these are what keep him from uploading more.
- After a flood of support, Dawson apologized for posting the screenshot and said he was taking a break from the internet.
Long-time YouTuber Shane Dawson opened up on Wednesday about negative comments that make him hesitant to upload more content.
As you probably already know, Dawson has a massively successful channel with over 23 million subscribers. And while fans love when he drops a new docuseries, he regularly hears complaints that he doesn’t upload enough.
At some point during the process of his recent makeup collaboration with Jeffree Star Cosmetics, he was inspired to create a new channel, ShaneGlossin, which is named after a lip gloss included in his collection. Dawson does already have a second channel, Shane Dawson TV, though he hasn’t uploaded through that account in several years.
In January, Dawson made his followers aware of the third account, calling it a low-pressure place to post makeup videos and other random content.
Shane Tweets About Negative Comments
While his main channel has remained inactive over the past two months, Dawson has uploaded a few videos to his new channel, which currently sits at just over 3 million subscribers. On Wednesday, he uploaded a light-hearted video about his bedazzling obsession and shortly after the video went live, he shared a screenshot of a comment someone left under it.
The comment he shared read: “I love Shane but it’s a damn shame to watch him putting all this weight back on while everyone around him laughs and enables it.”
“Hey Shane why don’t u post more? Why don’t u upload more? Well… this 🙃,” Dawson wrote in the tweet that accompanied the screenshot. “You would think after 13 years on youtube comments wouldn’t get to me but damn… they still feel like the very first time haha.”
It’s no secret that for years, Dawson has been open about his weight insecurities, body image issues, and mental health struggles. After sharing the comment, fans quickly flooded him with messages of love and support.
In a follow-up post, Dawson apologized for sharing the screenshot “Thanks for the nice tweets. I appreciate it a lot,” he wrote. “Sorry I got sensitive and posted that. I usually just ignore stuff but I’m just in a weird headspace lately :/ I think I’m gonna take a break from the internet for a bit. Thanks for being supportive and having my back.”
While Dawson has been met with kindness from friends and fans, his post highlights the impact hate comments on social media can have on a person, no matter how big or small their following.
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Ninja Sparks Conversations About Dealing With Gaming Losses
- Ninja tweeted that the phrase “it’s just a game” signals a weak mindset and was critical of players who are not angry after a loss.
- Some saw it as a message about improvement and taking the game seriously, while others used it as an opportunity to make jokes.
- But many said the comments send a bad message to his young audience and argued that you do not need to become angry to learn from a loss.
Tyler “Ninja” Blevins, one of the Internet’s biggest gamers, called out players who aren’t angry after a loss, sparking conversations about healthy ways to deal with failure.
On Tuesday, Ninja tweeted, “The phrase ‘it’s just a game’ is such a weak mindset. You are ok with what happened, losing, imperfection of a craft. When you stop getting angry after losing, you’ve lost twice.”
“There’s always something to learn, and always room for improvement, never settle,” he added.
Many interpreted his tweet as an inspirational message about taking gaming seriously and agreed with him.
I totally agree, nowadays it’s mainly PvP, meaning someone with skills better than yours beat you, there is nothing wrong with striving to be the best or having emotions after a lost, it’s a game you care about, your passion for it should be unbeatable.— Xynotexx (@xynotexx) February 19, 2020
Others used it as an opportunity to crack jokes about his intense remarks, including Lil Nas X and KSI.
But plenty of others thought his comments actually sent a dangerous message about dealing with and learning from failure.
Gaming YouTuber Ohmwrecker, also known as MaskedGamer, disagreed with Ninja. In a response tweet, he said, “You don’t have to be a sore / salty loser and get all toxic to learn from a loss. I feel strongly losing helps you get better, especially in competitive games. Anyone doing anything competitive should find value in a loss, but don’t need anger to benefit.”
He also said it actually was weak to suggest that managing your emotions is “losing twice” and accused Ninja of trying to justify his own internal challenges.
Thousands of other users chimed in expressing similar sentiments about managing emotions.
Dig the sentiment but you can still care about your craft and not get angry after losing.— Cohh Carnage (@CohhCarnage) February 18, 2020
I used to get super angry when I would perform badly. But lately it’s much more about analyzing, learning, etc. Just accepting that losing is the first step in that process of learning.👍
Ninja Says He Never Suggested Violent Rage Was Appropriate
In a now-deleted tweet, another person called Ninja’s stance disappointing, “particularly from someone with an audience who will take this as ‘it’s ok to smash my keyboard/scream at my loved ones/punch a hole in the wall just because I lost a game.’”
Ninja responded to that user with, “Where in this tweet do I say punch a wall and smash a keyboard/rage? It’s the way you perceived the message 🤔”
When someone argued that Ninja was essentially telling kids to keep playing until they win otherwise they are failures, Ninja said, “‘There is always room for improvement, never settle’ is bad advice?”
The wave of backlash doesn’t seem to have changed Ninja’s mind about his long-running issue with people who say “its just a game.” One user even shared a clip of Ninja once commenting on this topic. “Imagine telling Lebron James, Tom Brady, that when they’re pissed off after losing a game that ‘its just a game,” he says in the clip.
“Are you kidding me? You’re so stupid. It’s the competitive nature bro. It’s about respect bro. It’s about pride. It’s so much bigger than a fucking video game, and anyone that ever users the excuse ‘it’s just a game’ is a horrible human being and is lazy.”
Facts though. pic.twitter.com/puQbtyVI8d— BR1CK (@BR1CKmixer) February 18, 2020
Jake Paul Criticized for Tweets About Anxiety
- YouTuber Jake Paul tweeted, “remember anxiety is created by you,” before advising his followers who might be struggling to remind themselves to be happy, relax their minds, and talk to a friend.
- Many found his comments insulting and dangerous, but others defended him for what they felt was a well-intentioned tweet with advice that some might find helpful.
- In a follow-up tweet, Paul opened up about his own anxiety issues and explained that he was trying to say there are ways to help cope, but he eventually deleted that post along with his initial tweet.
“Anxiety is Created by You”
Internet users are slamming YouTuber Jake Paul over a tweet about mental health that many found dangerous and insulting.
On Monday the 23-year-old tweeted, “remember anxiety is created by you. sometimes you gotta let life play out and remind yourself to be happy & that the answers will come.”
“Chill your mind out,” he added before recommending that those struggling “go for a walk” or “talk to a friend.”
The tweet prompted thousands of responses from internet users. Many, of course, joked that Paul had “cured” their anxiety.
Meanwhile, others fired back with more serious responses, including people who suffer from anxiety themselves.
Fellow YouTubers like Sierra Schultzzie also chimed in writing, “This is actually really harmful. Anxiety can be incredibly physical as well as mental. Mental illness is not the fault of the sufferer.”
“Please delete this, you are doing actual harm to your followers who very well may need to be seeking professional help for their problems,” she added.
Colleen Ballinger tweeted, “telling people with anxiety to just stop having anxiety does not help them with their anxiety.”
Andrea Russett wrote, “i can’t believe i’m paying $200 an hour for therapy when i could just remind myself to be happy.”
Paul Tries to Clarify
After seeing some backlash, Paul went back to Twitter with a follow-up post to expand on what he meant. “What I meant is that your anxiety can build up if you let it,” he wrote, “it doesn’t just go away.”
“Mine never does but there’s days where it’s really bad and then there’s days when it’s not as bad so if anxiety starts to build up there ARE ways to help it chill out.”
In another tweet, he wrote: “everyone is clowning my tweet but not it’s spreading more awareness about anxiety which I didn’t even know was a thing till I was 18 but had it my whole life & never knew how to deal with it.”
“If u think u have it or wanna deal with it try reading this,” Paul added along with a link to an article about coping with anxiety from Healthline.com.
In response to those comments, more influencers explained what exactly their issues were with his initial post.
Taylor Nicole Dean said, “ur tweet spread bAD info about anxiety bc it can stop people from getting help when it’s needed thinking they can just walk it off and chill :/ it was also a lil insulting to those who deal with it.”
ur tweet spread bAD info about anxiety bc it can stop people from getting help when it’s needed thinking they can just walk it off and chill :/ it was also a lil insulting to those who deal with it. those “clowning” r the ones providing good info. Just say my bad n move on 😭— taylor nicole dean (@taylorndean) February 18, 2020
Sky Williams responded by telling Paul his tweet was dangerous to his young audience. “Anxiety is bad enough as it is, but now you’re trying to make it seem like its our fault that we feel anxious. it’s just so invalidating and shortsighted. You should delete it.”
nobody is ‘clowning’ on your tweet— ♡♪!? (@SkyWilliams) February 18, 2020
your tweet is dangerous to your young impressionable audience. anxiety is bad enough as it is, but now you’re trying to make it seem like its our fault that we feel anxious.
it’s just so invalidating and shortsighted.
You should delete it.
Paul eventually deleted his initial post as well as his follow up tweet, but left up think link he shared about coping with anxiety.
Some Defend Paul
Despite the widespread backlash against Paul, many felt that his tweet was well-intentioned and could be helpful advice for some.
Honestly it wasn’t amazingly said but if you have a brain you could clearly see that he wasn’t saying it with bad intentions at all. I mean after all at least he is trying to help people. Everyone just needs something to hate on.— Zak (@ZakHoule) February 18, 2020
i think it should be noted that he is not saying this is a cure for anxiety. what he is doing is sharing a couple of things that help him cope with some of his own anxieties. this doesnt mean it will work for everyone nor is he arguing that.— andrea. (@Drey_Faris23) February 18, 2020
Others argued that he shouldn’t be attacked for trying to share advice that has helped him. Instead, those who took issue with his phrasing or message should use this as an opportunity to educate.